BWright, on Nov 20 2007, 03:48 AM, said:
henrique, on Nov 20 2007, 02:40 AM, said:
BWright, on Nov 20 2007, 03:28 AM, said:
henrique, on Nov 20 2007, 02:20 AM, said:
BWright, on Nov 20 2007, 03:16 AM, said:
henrique, on Nov 20 2007, 02:11 AM, said:
BWright, on Nov 20 2007, 03:05 AM, said:
henrique, on Nov 20 2007, 01:43 AM, said:
man, lol , this is a good topic for me, im not worried at all about my love life... an so many people are after me... lol ... i should start thinking about it, its about time, i think so... but, im just not bothered, lool, and i cant find anyone that i truly like, so i never go for it! i never say, this is the one, now its the right time... but i believe its time for me to worry about it...
my question is, should i take the risk? dive in? try it out with a "possible candidate" , or should i just do what i do, best ...lool , sit tight and wait for God to hit me on the head...
???
anyone??
lol, and not Paulo... no offense =P
zueira mano, liga nao brincadeira...
yeh my friend, dont wait 4 God 2 hit u on the head, if u do wait, i believe he will hit u when u get to heaven and say Po!!!! what was u waiting 4, I provided so much but u jus turnt ur head an waited, u need 2 act ur faith, take possision whats the worst that can happen
erm, do the wrong decision, thats the worst that could happen ... i think, i dunna ... u know?
lol, i mean, what if, i go for this one ... but later, i find the one ? what if i make the wrong decision, too soon? and then "the one" appears? what do i do? i break da heart of the one im with now? is that right?
i dont know, dont think it is... the thing is, i only date when i "fall in love" , i used that term so u'd understand me... and i dont feel that often =P , actually, all my life, i've only liked 1 girl... didnt work out, cos i had another problem, lol, i shoved her away, for good reasons, personal ones...
i havnt found anyone that i liked yet, so i'll wait... or shouldnt i? should i just go for the "possible candidate"
b.wright says i should try it, and see if it works out, if not , whats the worse that could happen? im guessing its not that bad to end a relationship...
so, yeh... anyone else?
yeh me again, how u gonna kno if shes "the one" if u dont even try 2 get 2 kno her, get me u could be letting "the one" fly by GETME!!!! Sizer!!!
you might have a point, but how will i know if she is the one, if i do get to know her and not know she is the one while the one could be the one im not talking to at the time because i don't know her because she thinks the one im talking to is the one and the one doesnt talk to me because of the one im talking to now...
getme?
seriously, i thought i met "the one" but turns out, i was wrong... the heart is deciteful , so how could i ever take that dive again? expecially when i dont feel it in the air?
yeh i get u, but when ur speakin 2 one even thoe she might not be the one, i believe God sees that ur useing ur faith to find the one so the one ur talking to may not be the one but God will work and make a way for u to find the one but whilst u sit back and relax i can asure u u willnot find the one get me!!! and to do with the other thing bout taking a dive again ur gonna have to 2 cause the blessin aint jus gonna fall from the sky lyk walkin and slam there she is fallin from the sky with a sign sayin Sent 2 Henrique from God enjoy. its gonna be a fight but u gotta fight if u wanna b blessed GETME!!!

,,, that would be the day... walking in the street , a woman falls from the sky, with a sign saying to henrique enjoy ... u do have a twisted mind boi...
yeh, but i get what ur saying, and i agree... in the aspect of your explanation, i mean, i do get to know people, but i dont get to like them, i mean, girls that i get to know, they like me, but i never give them the chance... so i do get to know them, im past that part... what i dont do is date them, i never go and start anything with them, but im always there, tyna like them, tryna get to know them better... yet i cant compel myself to leap into a relationship...
i mean, i go after it, i talk to girls, they like me, they seem like good people, but i cant, and i dont, start anything... i even try to like them, but nah, i just dont invest... even if i like them a little bit, i just have this "perfect" idea in my head... of what it would be like... because i have felt it before... i just cant feel it now... lol ... so, i think im gonna, just try again and again, but i dont want to start anything, because i mean, whats there to start? a relationship is basically, talking to the person with intentions... and getting to know better, and falling in love, or wat nat... i dont start that... =P ,,, i dont think i should either...
but i do get to know them, and i do talk to them alot... so, im guessing, its not the right time, or right one,, but if u say i should start a relationship with a girl that i might learn to like in time, i might be able to think about that... i'll do that with the next best girl, start investing and praying with them... if it doesnt work out... well, i cant say i didnt try...
i'd like to take the time, and i know its futile, due to the complications of my minds, issues... lol, Im single, anyone around interested? lol (futile, who'd want a mad man like me)
a joke, to break the ice ...
im gonna go sleep, GOd bless all!
feel free to motivate me, and thanks b.wright... i'll keep in mind what u said, faith with action... i'll walk up to the girl and say "hey, wanna try and work this out? lets pray" and if that doesnt work, my heart is in the right place, and God will honor me... isnt that right?
yep, lets get to work people!
i was'nt sayin u should go and date them, me when u begin 2 date u hav the intention 2 marry a short while after so u kno dont jus date n e one, but take time get to kno the person speak 2 them find out more kno what they want what the expect, find out what u hav incommon and what you dont, if ur vision 4 life is the same and u kno work fromt there then i belive u will be able to work it out, and not 4getin fru all of this u need 2 depend on God cause u cant do it on ur own GetME!!!, like u sayin u dont wanna go there and try cause of things of the past u can even tell God that but then ask 4 courage and boldness 2 do so GETME!!!
wat are u on about man? or wat are u on in general? lol
i mean, i never said i had problems with the past, i said, i felt it in the past, so i know what i feels like... and thats what i do anyways!!!! i get to know them, but i never date them, but i do know them...lol and i pray, God help me... so all u saying, except the part of the past and stuff, thats what i do! all u said was what i already do, lol, i talk to them, get to know them, and i ask God for courage and boldness, and then i pray, but i dont feel like she the one... even though we got it all in common... so, its not about what i do, its about what i feel... i like the girl, i think shes great and all, and that we match and that we have it all in common, but i dont invest, i say, "nah, not now" ... i do give some ideias, and they say "hipethetically" we would be good as a couple, but i never take that step to it...
i think she great, i think she nice, but i never take that step... im not afraid, maybe im just not motivated, or i think "why should i?" ... lol ... thats what i've been saying for the past hour... that i might even like her, but i dont take that step, cos i dont feel like its right for me, or u know?
but yeh, i'll think about it, and get back to you...
i know where ur coming from, i know what ur saying, thats all i did, what u said... all of it i did, but even if shes the best girl in the world, i just dont feel like its right time or what nat... lol, and im turning 19... i think the problem is, that i only date to get married, so, to start dating , i'd have to have the same stability as if i were to marry her... lol , maybe its that, i dont date, i'd jump to being engaged already...
i dont know... I'll just see what God gives me, lol, and see how life turns out!!! =D
u know what? i think i've figured it out... because im happy being alone, happy with my singleness , i dont think i need a woman, but thats what my brain thinks... and i know, that i will end up getting married and all that... so, basically, i think i should stop trying so hard... maybe thats the problem, i shouldnt try harder, maybe i should stop trying so hard... maybe its the opposite...
tough stuff here...
lol,,, im sorry to fill this topic with all of this, but hey, its for people with issues innit?
i will definately go sleep now, promise made!! so, if u reply, wait till tomorow!!!
by the way, if she falls from the sky, it would probably kill her, and i would guess she is falling from a building, or a plane, probably a sky kite or a helicopter if she rich, which she would probably be if shes a girl of the dreams ...
another joke to break the ice... im on fire! (to break the ice, rather say, melt the ice...

im so sleepy, its 4am, and im ready to pray!)
God bless