[Anjo.]

Well I have heard many people saying that God created just one person to be the ONE for you. I believe that God has someone who could make a great partner for you (not perfect).

I do not believe that age really matter in any relationship, if I am 5 years younger than my boyfriend it does not mean that he is not the right one for me. My friends’ mother was 20 years younger than her husband which means that she had to be 20 times more submissive than other women but she was not – here was no submission in her character. There are many woman who are younger than their husband but they are far from submitting to them even though they are young.

I also know few couples that a wife is at least 4-6 years older than the husband and they are happy in their marriage. Well I could say that some of them faced a little of insecurities and some problems but because they (LOVED) each other and they wanted their marriage to work – sacrifice was required from the wife.- she sacrificed her voice and her maturity to submit to her husband. Well sacrifice of any kind is required in each marriage.

Any problem can lead to future problem if two people are not willing to sacrifice to make the marriage work If really love and relationships depended on age – does this mean people who are married to older woman or younger men chose the wrong partner, even if they are happy and blessed?

“Only one person out there is your other half, yourMr Right. The real Mr Right matches you in every way. You look great together, and there’s no small problem to overlook,”

From my personal point of view – there is nothing like perfect partner made especially for you. I believe that God might have made this partner and for sure God never makes a mistake but PEOPLE DO. What if this ONE partner that was made for me chose or makes a mistake of marrying another woman? Does that mean I will have no partner for the rest of my life just because he was the only ONE?

No! I don’t think so. There is nothing like Mr Perfect that was designed ONLY for you . I believe that the perfect partner for me comes from my mind, heart and my preferences and I should see in my character if that person can be my husband or not and he would be the one that I CHOSE and the one that will CHOSE ME – above all age shouldn’t be a problem when comes to choosing a partner because all man old or young – they can still look at other women.

Of cause also we must chose with intelligence and not take advantage of these young men.